THE BLACK PARADIGM
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THE BLACK PARADIGM
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What's up, what's up, what's up, niggas? It's your boy TJ, aka TJ with the sauce.
SPEAKER_06Hey you guys, it's your girl, Ashley, aka Ashley Great.
SPEAKER_05And welcome back to the Black Paradigm, my niggas. Listen, we are back. Um, this episode is, you know, we got a lot to talk about, but it's not gonna be a long episode, but we're just gonna get right into it. Guys, our email address is theblackparadigm77 at gmo.com. Once again, for the niggas in the front and the middle and in the motherfucking back, it is the blackparadigm77 at gmo.com. Welcome back, niggas. Welcome, welcome back. Ashley. Yes. Let's get to it.
SPEAKER_06Let's do it.
SPEAKER_05How's your mental? I mean, how's how's your mental health check been? Like, what is going on right now with you?
SPEAKER_06My mental health is okay. Um not working. I'm able to kind of move freely by my day, but you know, I'm getting bored. I definitely need to do better with having a set schedule. Because even when I was working, like my schedule was that I was doing so many things throughout the day. But yeah, some days I can be so productive. Excuse me, but some days like today, I just kind of excuse me, I gotta I decided to get hit because I started the show. I um it's fine. Yeah, I just some days it's a little just like I sat there, kind of like watch TV, but didn't really do shit. So, you know, it's just I'm just bored. You know, I think that's one of the things I've been reading and just kind of researching and just looking into myself outside of just, you know, getting into my word is just how black women a lot of times we feel like we have to prove why we're resting or, you know, have to always be productive 100% of the day. And it's just like, you know, not having to put clothes on. It's like, okay, I'm just kind of sitting around and not doing nothing. Do I feel like I should be doing something? Yes, but I'm not, you know what? I'm surprised I'm not as hurt as I am that I don't have a job. Because I can't lie, I am enjoying not being around those fucking people. I miss my team that I was on as well than the five, I mean, excuse me, the six of us. But you know, I'm not as tore up as I thought I was gonna be. Um, it's more so just like, damn, I'm just bored all day. But you know, I've been receiving a lot of like my own confirmations, like through the universe, through God, through other people, and just random people, it's gonna all work out. I do believe it is. So I'm just taking it day by day. How's your mental health?
SPEAKER_05Well, well, you know, friends, I just want to say this before I get into my mental health. I am proud of you.
SPEAKER_07Thanks, man.
SPEAKER_05You are, even even though you are in this season, right? And I'm just calling it a season because it's not gonna last.
SPEAKER_06Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05Even though you are in this season of life, um, I know this season is going to something really good is coming your way because you have talked about it, you have prayed about it, you have asked, you know, a la all everybody, the universe for it. It is coming. And I think, honestly, this might be a setback, but at the same time, it might be pushing you five steps further.
SPEAKER_06Uh uh.
SPEAKER_05Because I remember you talking about how stressed you were, especially on the podcast. And even when we were talking on the phone, you know, I feel like this is a good thing, but at the same time, I know you want to work because you've been working all your I mean, you've been working all your life. So You ain't never, you ain't never been without a job. As long as I know you, you ain't never been without a job.
SPEAKER_06The longest I've ever been unemployed was just short of two months.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I think instead of being 60 days, it was like 53 days. So like a week short of a month. I mean, excuse me, of two months.
SPEAKER_05Something's coming your way. I believe it. Uh, you know how I I'm always the optim. I am probably one of the biggest optimistic people in like just, I don't know if it has anything with me being a Libra, not a Libra, bitch ass niggas, is a Libra. Um, I seen this video, someone was like, Yeah, y'all Libras lie all the time. That's why they have L I said bitches.
SPEAKER_06Romantic sense, they absolutely fucking do. I will never date me. I love you.
SPEAKER_05Let me tell you something. I don't even think we lie. I don't even think we'd lie. I think we just we're not, we don't try, we try not to hurt people's feelings.
SPEAKER_06Nigga, the opposite of a truth is a fucking lie. It's enough to get out my fucking alley to knock you upside the fucking head with it. Why you playing and why you lying? Bitch. Oh, you just have brought me back. I had a flash. I seen this ass, smiling, lying ass face, talking about, well, baby, it ain't that serious. Shut the fuck up. Oh. Blocked, bitch. Lie to that. Lie to the block button.
SPEAKER_05I I will say there is a certain percentage of Libras that, yeah, you know, they might lie to you, da-da-da-da-da. Try to make everything nice, seem nice, everything like that. I'm an October Libra. Okay? Them motherfuckers is different. Them September Libras, I ain't got nothing to do with them. But them October.
SPEAKER_06See, wait a minute. My dad's September Libra. I, it's the October Libras that I just be wanting to meet them up. Not in a good way.
SPEAKER_05I've only heard good things about October Libras. Um, but yes. Um, Tits.
SPEAKER_06And my Marlowe and uh stream.
SPEAKER_05All right, Pisces. All right, Pisces. Y'all not too far, y'all not too far off.
SPEAKER_06We don't lie. We might cry, we might fuck shit up, but we're honest. We don't lie. Very emotional. Rather be a crier than a liar. If you lie, that you'll steal. And if you'll steal, you'll kill. Thank you. And another one, thank you.
SPEAKER_05Well, moving on. Um moving on. Um, my mental health has been really, it's it's been stable. Um, kind of good. I had a my therapy session finally. Had my therapy session on uh, was it when? Yeah, it was yesterday.
SPEAKER_07How did you go?
SPEAKER_05It went really good. Um, my therapist, I mean, I haven't seen my therapist in almost like two weeks. So he was just like, honestly, I don't want to say flabbergas, but I think I think he was very um appreciative of the growth that I've had over these last couple of weeks and about knowing who I am and what I'm going to do and what I'm not gonna accept. That's the key. And you know, me and you have had conversations outside of this podcast, right? Where it's like, not too much, all right? Not too motherfucking much. I got too much shit on my plate. I I'm not, I can't do it. I'm not gonna do it. Don't act, don't, let me tell you something. Unless TJ says, hey, I I got room, you can put that shit on my plate, don't put TJ's name in it.
SPEAKER_06TJ, just do this.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Not on my watch. That's all you gotta do.
SPEAKER_05Not on my watch.
SPEAKER_06It's not happening.
SPEAKER_05Baby, let me tell you something. One of my coworkers asked me to do something, and I said, Well, hold on now. I said, I got five minutes before I go. They said, Oh, well, I just thought you thought wrong.
SPEAKER_06It's not happening. And it was like, you drop some beats. What are we doing?
SPEAKER_05Why did you think that was happening? Like spring summer, what's going on? Like, you never done anything for me. Why would I do something for you? Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha. Like, I'm just saying, I'm just like, you know, I asked you to do something for me, it's a whole fucking deal. Like, it's a whole issue. You know, and I'm like, I said, never mind. Never mind, I do the shit my damn self. Uh-uh. But now you need my help. Oh, see you later. Jingling my car keys. Not the car keys. Yes. So, you know, my my um my mental health has been going good. Um just knowing when the top. Yes. Boundaries. And black people, please put your boundaries in place. Because if you don't, niggas will run over you. And I don't give a damn about your astrological sign. I don't give a damn about nothing. Put your boundaries in place. Because niggas will run over you and they know exactly, exactly what they're doing. So yeah. Yeah, that's that's um, that's really it for me. Um, today was a beautiful day, beautiful Thursday. Um a little hot though, but you know, and I think we're supposed to be getting the um, what is it, this week? Uh I think Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is supposed to be like uh supposed to be the hottest or whatever this month or something like that. I don't know, but yeah. It's it's beyond me. It's beyond me now.
SPEAKER_06It's a skin set up by time to come to us with the bullshit. That's all it is.
SPEAKER_05I'm done. I am done. So what's been going on in Ashley's Corner, boo?
SPEAKER_06Well, I'm so glad we have this show. Um, a lot of the times we do talk about serious topics, and this is a serious topic for me. But one thing about black people is we laugh to keep from crying, and I needed a distraction because you're in my close circle, so you know how I feel pain. When you're hurting, I hurt. So I want to give a shout out to, and I'm not gonna say her name, I respect, one of my very best friends, her um, she had a family member that passed away of cancer, and I just dedicate the show to Nicole. Um I pray your soul rests in peace. I pray that you are on the other side. Um, I pray that you, you know, you're not hurting, you're not suffering, you're not in pain, but I do want you to really watch over your family. She comes from an amazing family. Um and I've kind of felt a little down. TJ noticed that because he wanted to cancel, but I was just like, you know what? No, because I need a distraction. Because until I can get my best friend next week, I'm gonna go show my support to the family. I just I've been sad about that all day because cancer, I feel like for whatever reason, and I think it is the food as well as distressors, because it's like we can't eat nothing. We can't afford medication, we can't afford to live, we're not getting paid way. So outside of the food that we're consuming and distressors, just being uh I feel like it's hitting more and more black people in their 30s now. And that's something that I'm not used to seeing. You know, you growing up, we would hear people maybe in their 50s, sometimes 40s, but it was just late 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s that had can now like you're seeing young black, you know, young black people having heart attacks and stroke. Like I just met somebody that just had a stroke at 37 years old, you know. Nicole was young, healthy as an ox. But you just is, you know, I would say I just encourage my people, at least if you can't afford it, or utilize a free health care clinic to get your yearly checkups. You know, sometimes you do, and sometimes shit just still can happen along the way. But just if you feel any slight difference or if you notice something in your body that is not right, please don't get it checked out. If you notice the lump in your breast, if you notice a lump anywhere else, if you just feel more sluggish to use anything, because I go to the doctor about anything. Um yeah, I just I dedicate the show to her and I just want black people to live very long lives. Black people deserve to live long, beautiful lives. And if you do have family members that have cancer or have any type of life militant disease, just make sure you know, make sure that they know that you know that y'all have love for each other, that you love them, they love you, that you get out those last words, last hangouts, because life is too short. So it is very sad to see a young, black, beautiful life just get cut short. But not dedicate this to her. And you know, I send condolences to the family. Like I said, a beautiful family inside it out, and they are hurting.
SPEAKER_05So shout out to um, you know, um, again, we dedicate this segment to Nicole and her family and um Flowers on Flowers on Flowers. Um Absolutely.
SPEAKER_06She's a basketball star. She played at UT under Pat Summit um once upon a time. Um very beloved by her community, our friends and family, and just you know, even though I didn't meet her physically, I know who she was because she was my best friend's sister. So it's just one of them things where she had a spirit that was very bright, very f a freaking hilarious person. So, you know, I'm just gonna choose, and again, I've never met her physically, but I feel like I knew her through the phone and through a picture that through stories. So I'm definitely gonna be sure to remember that.
SPEAKER_05So um, black people, please go get checked out. Um, if you feel, again, what you know, added to Ashley what she just said, if you feel like like your side is hurting or your chest is hurting, or you just feel just different than what you've been feeling the last couple of months, go get checked out. Go get checked out, go to the free if you can't afford it, just like Ashley said, if you have a free clinic, free healthcare clinic, and most of the time, free clinics are usually around big like metro areas and or I mean most cities have like health departments and stuff. Yeah, health departments, yeah. Um, go get checked out, you know, because you you just you just wanna you wanna be aware of what you're going through and oh, okay, well, it's medication for that. Or, you know, do I even need to put on, you know, get medication, or if this is something that I just need to kind of like either lose weight or something like that, or drink more, be more hydrated, you know what I'm saying? Change my diet, switch my diet, right? Not everything requires medication, by the way. You can switch up your diet, you can switch up, yes. Um, so just you know, take care of yourself. Um if you feel something, say something.
SPEAKER_06Absolutely. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05Um so uh I also wanted to talk about this. Um it's not on our list, but I wanted to congratulate uh Mark Phillips. Now, a lot of people are like, who the fuck is Mark? These niggas like, who the fuck is Mark Phillips? Mark Phillips, if you heard of DreamCon, racism and stuff. That's the nigga that uh that's the nigga that started it. Um RDC World stands for Real Dreams Change the World. And if it's up to the sketch collector's head, Honcho, Mark Phillips, he aims to do just that one comedy skit at a time since the 2010s. I remember when he was doing those comedy skits like on uh YouTube, and it would just be like, I remember, I'm like, who the fuck? Who is this? It's Mark. Um Phillips has led this group to 7.3 million subscribers on YouTube with cosigns from stars like Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and LeBron James. He is Times uh Time 100 creators of 2026.
SPEAKER_06Yay, yes, okay.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Also, a laundry car that made it, and so did my boo Serena Page. Shout out to those beautiful black women who the top 100 influencers, right? That's the list.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, top uh time 100 creators of 2026. Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Yes.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. So uh yeah, he is the founder of DreamCon, and uh he's 31 years old, and he is building a cross-cultural media empire for black nerds and fandoms brick by brick. And I we'll talk about DreamCon later, maybe next week or week after next. Yeah, yes, yes, yes, but Dream, I will say this DreamCon is Blacky Black. All the videos, all the showcases, all just everything. It just embodies blackness and nerds and just fandom. So shout out to Mark Phillips. Shout out to DreamCon. We'll be talking about you guys. Um, and I heard that next year is gonna be on the weekend of Juneteenth. So I'm excited.
SPEAKER_06We have to go.
SPEAKER_05We need to we need to figure some things out. We need to figure some things out so we can go.
SPEAKER_06We're working. We're working.
SPEAKER_05So shout out to Mark, uh Mark Phillips and the uh uh Phillips and the team. Uh congratulations, man.
SPEAKER_06Yes, congratulations. I want to add in my two cents. Um speaking of like just black content creators in general. I don't know if you remember. There was a black content creator named Mighty Dud. You remember him? Ooh, they still, right?
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_06There was a video that came across my threads timeline today. It was him and his beautiful daughter. He took her to like a, it was like a pink, it was like a place where they serve a high tee. And she was just so sweet. There was the sweetest interaction. And I was in our commented, I said, I know this is a bit parasocial, but seeing like content creators that you grew up with in real time from like Vine to now, and then their parents, it's like uh watching your classmates or your best friends and their kids. It's just like, oh, it was the sweetest little interaction. And his daughter is a freaking doll, baby. Like, and she just was so sweet, and they would just, he was like, I'm so glad you're my daughter, and she got to cry. It was just so heartwarming. So I love you know, these black creators like Mark Phillips, the Alandrias, the Serenas, the, you know, the Mighty Dudes all just finding their own lane. And I think what that shows is there's a lane for everybody. You just gotta find it. It is to be authentically yourself, genuine, and you just have to thrive in just chaos and where you are in your lane. And I think that's important for us too, because granted we've been doing this for like over two years now. I'm still happy about where we are and the eternity that we have.
SPEAKER_05So I think I think us being authentic, and even though we have had situations where people have commented or stopped or tried to play with us, um we're not going anywhere. Like, this is the black paradigm for a reason. We are two black people, male, female, that are doing this fucking show. And if you don't like it, guess what? There are other podcasts that you can go listen to. And if you're not black, why are you sit here? Like, I that's my thing. Listen, it's in the name.
SPEAKER_06You're never really lonely. Guess what?
SPEAKER_07Time, time, time, yeah.
SPEAKER_05Shout out to all the people, all the supporters that keep supporting us. Um I am someone DM me on Threads, like, oh, are you uh because I used to post our podcast on Threads. I'm sorry. I'm getting back on Threads. I literally get on Threads every day. I just forget to post the podcast. That is my badge, y'all. I'm sorry about that. I will be posting all of our podcasts from the Family Reunion Network, Yeah. Okay. Shout out to Threads too. It's just a lot of good energy content on Threads. It's um and speaking of good energy, Megan the Stallion enters the fragrance industry with hot girl summer perfume that captures my essence. Um early access purchase will be available starting in July. Well, it's already at Ulta. I smelt it.
SPEAKER_06Have you smelled it?
SPEAKER_05I smelt it today.
SPEAKER_06Oh my God.
SPEAKER_05It smells amazing.
SPEAKER_06They said the top note is coconut milk accord, the middle is orchid accord, and the base is vetiver. Um so I love coconut smell, orchid smell, and vetiver can go either way, but I'm sure together I know that is amazing. I'm deaf. This weekend I'm gonna try to go to the store to smell some. I know it smells so good.
SPEAKER_05It smells good. Um, and you know, this kind of led me into this other thing about body mist, because this is summer, and I know a lot of people love body mist, right? A lot of people, they they stick with their perfumes and their colognes. But I wanted to kind of just bring something fun. What is your favorite, Ashley? Body miss, perfume. What what is your go-to?
SPEAKER_06So, ooh. So I can't lie, I am a girl. Get off of my my I'm so sick of Apple. Lord have mercy on me.
SPEAKER_05Not too much, not too much.
SPEAKER_06Okay, perfume on this phone, let's go. So I am a perfume girly. I, you know, I have certain women that I look up to because I love their perfume collections. If I had the money, I would definitely have more. Um I have some of my some of my favorite fragrance houses. I would definitely say Valatino. I love um Kaylee's. I love the Latafa, which is the Arabic brands. I love I love um Swiss Arabian, which is their Arabic house. I also love um some single perfumes I love. I love Fenty's Rihanna perfume. That smells amazing on me.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I love um I love Victor and Roth.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_06And I love YSL, particularly YSL Libre and YSL Libre intense. And I'm a big Burberry girl. Love a lot of the Burberry fragrances. And I love um, there's a few Chanel fragrances that I like. But I'm a perfume girly. So typically once I go out, I always displayer like a body oil. So I'm moisturize with body creams and body oils depending on the season. So it's summer, so I'm usually always oiling up because when I go out, whether I'm going to a club, out and about, or just out in the town, I'm not sweating. So I save body creams and body lotions for the um winter, the fall season, because I'll need more moisture, right? But the oils, I love to seal those with oils. So I always take a shower, exfoliate, put on my body oil. I love the roller-on oils that you get from like the gat, the um beauty supply stores. Yes. I used to online and get them. My favorite is Pink Pussy personally. I go to about 40 of them. I have so many different scents, but I go with the notes. So I go in between, I go in between where my my elbow, like the crevice in the elbow, my wrist, behind my ears, behind my neck, behind my uh knees, and I go my ankles. So I always spray, I always layer and have a perfume combo. I spray on top of those. Now, body mist, I do like body mist. I tend I have they have like about 50 body mist as well. I love body mist. I wear those to sleep because I on and when I go out throughout the day, I always layer a body mist on top of my perfume. But just to wear them on their own, they don't last for a shit. So I usually use that in my hair or my weaves or whatever. I don't do it as much in my weaves like I used to because a lot of those are alcohol-based and now dry your hair out. Correct. So they do have specified, specialized body mists that I do love. Um, body and hair mist that I do love that specialized for hair. But usually I wear body mist and sometimes a perfume to bed. But if you're one to be like a perfume girly on the budget, I'll definitely utilize your stores like your TJ Maxx's, your Burlington, your Marshall's, your Ross, even some of the non-Nay brand stuff in there smells really good. Oh, and I cannot forget the OG perfume house that I used to love. I was a Paris perfume. That Can ain't nothing smell, nothing is touching Can Can. A lot of her perfumes I had as a teenager, so love Paris and perfumes.
SPEAKER_07Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Um now if you want like a perfume house or inspired perfumes, I would say check out your dossiers, check out your umchas. There's so many different, I'm gonna have to find y'all a lot of different black-owned oil brands or just oil brands in general, but I love uh brown sugar babe. I have her fantasy boxes. I have the pineapple, I have a blueberry fruit. There's so many different little things out there. But like if you want just a nice, if you want to start off with a nice body oil, the vanilla body oil from Dr. Teals with magnesium is my personal favorite. Okay. If you're a girl that don't like none of that shit and you just want to stick to pure shea butter, there is a website that I will have to find for y'all. I will come with my perfume report next week. But they make all of their shea butters, and I keep one every winter. This is an olive oil-based shea butter with coconut and mango oil. Really, really good. So I love Oh hell yeah. I would say if I had to say my favorite perfume of all time, for old time's sakes, I'ma say Can Can by Paris, because that was my scent. And I hate to say this, but the first Nicki Minaj perfume, my mama kept me loaded with that. She brought me every Nicki Minaj perfume. I think Nicki had like three or four. I can't remember. I had like the light pink hair perfume, the pink, the black, and the gold. But my mama kept me perfume now. And she used to buy me all of the Beyonce Heats.
SPEAKER_05Oh, loved those. Remember, that is a let me tell you, that was a time.
SPEAKER_06I had like all of those. My mom kept the see. I come from parents. My parents have always had, my dad has a vast cologne collection. He always smells amazing. And my mom has a vast perfume collection.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_06So my favorite perfume now, if I had to say anything, my go-tos that I typically grab are going to be Yarra La Toffa. It's going to be Fenty. I need to get me some more. I love the pink, the sweet diamond pink pepper from Kaali. And I love the extra dose Valentino born aroma. Anything that is more mind or fruity. I love a vanilla-based perfume. Um and I'm kind of, and I'm kind of the older I'm getting, the more I'm getting getting into spices and florals. But florals are extremely hit and miss for me. I have to smell them. I did I do not buy blind by floral perfumes. I'll blind buy a gourmand or a spicy before I blind by a floral. But yeah, that that's kind of where I'm at scent-wise. But yeah. I always I'm a layerer, so I'm more my whatever moisturizer I'm using, as well as I put some type of concentrated perfume oil on my post points. I go on top of that with my main perfume. My second hair perfume, my body mist, I put my clothes on. Well, I'll have my panties on because I don't need nothing to get in my lady area. But like when I put my clothes on, If you fume on top of my clothes as well. And that's how I go out in the world. That was very intense. I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_05No, no, no, that was good. That was good. That was good. I that I wanted us to have that conversation just for that reason because I know you are a scent enthusiast.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, but you see my room and you see you see my um my shelf, my gold shelf stuff.
SPEAKER_05Your shelf is big, bigger than mine, but you know. Yeah. So I would say going into body mist versus uh colognes for men, right? I am I'm really balanced. I love a good body mist, um, especially in the summer, spring and summer, because you can just layer that shit on and like go about your business, right? Now, depending on what body mist you get, you have to be, you can't, you have to research the body mist, right? And you also have to understand the scents, right? Anything with vanilla, bergamot, um, cedar wood, driftwood, those are going to kind of like last. Anything citrus in a body mist, it's not gonna last a long time.
SPEAKER_06It's just, and except bergamot, but see, I think because a lot of bergamot notes in there, it's more oil-based.
SPEAKER_05Mm-hmm. And then see, I said cedarwood, right? Yeah, I said cedarwood, all of that. Sandalwood is sandalwood, yes. Sandalwood, bourbon, uh, all of those spices, you know, they're going to last, especially. Now, this is my trick for body mist, especially those that are the scents that I just named. You need to be moisturized, okay? So if you moisturize your neck, moisturize all the points that we're gonna put your fragrance, because it lasts. Never put a body mist or cologne or perfume on dry skin. First, it can irritate it. Second, it just doesn't work as well. So if you're gonna layer something on or put something on, right, make sure your body is um, make sure your body is moisturized first. Second, I would say the body mist, I've already named like the sense that I love for body mist. Um, I would say my favorite um body mist right now is um the Calvin Klein uh line of body mist. So it's they're very new, but they they they last. They last. So the Calvin Klein line of body mist, and then for my cologne, it's definitely gonna be Dosce and Gabbana, Euphoria, Dosce Gabbana light blue. And then Yes, yes, light blue, euphoria, um, and then Burberry. I love me a good Burberry. But see, I'm one of those people, I'm one of those niggas. I like to try out a lot of colognes. So I have my collection, it runs from Kenneth Cole to um, I mean, I got some Avon colognes up in there because I just like, it's like this musk, this musk cologne from Avon, right? And people are like, oh, damn, Avon, yes. When I collect colognes and body mist, it's all over. I got Old Spice Body Mist. I got, like, I am just a collector. If it smells good and that scent lasts, I'm down for it.
SPEAKER_06What do you think your favorite notes are?
SPEAKER_05My favorite notes are definitely cedar wood. You said what?
SPEAKER_06And male fragrance, period.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, male fragrance period is definitely gonna be um bourbon, oak, um, a strong musk, but also kind of like balance that with cedar wood. So I'm more into like the warm, um the warm kind of smells. I do a little bit of citrus here and now and then, but you know, oh, I got this Calvin Klein's um Calvin Klein into you. Now that one, I love that one because it is yeah, it's very fresh. It's very like, it's there, it's summery. I love that scent. But I'm more of a warm, like an oak, a bourbon type of just like person. Because I love the, I feel like those smells stay on my body longer.
SPEAKER_06So yeah. My dad, he um, when you said light blue, that's what I think my dad's probably in his 20s bottle of that. That's one of his staples in his collection. Yeah. The Dolce Gabbana light blue. And my dad wore, now I've gotten him in the Arabic fragrance. I buy those for him. Yeah. So it's a Latafa one that he loves, and it's an off non. I'm gonna have to get you some. But one fragrance, uh the fragrance house, I I would say my dad wore a lot of, he wore a lot of Calvin Klein fragrances. Dolce and Gabbana, of course, like Dior Savan Dior Savans is a classic I love.
SPEAKER_05That's a that's always been a top fragrance.
SPEAKER_06Yes, but anything isynyaki, my dad is a huge Itsy Miyaki fan. And I used to love, like, even now, if he pulls out his old military uniform, my dad has been retired out of the military now for 12 years. On his uniforms, I can smell his scent. My dad's clothes, like he trails through the house. My dad has really good body chemistry though, but like, you know, for the uh as a little girl, I expected every man to smell it. My dad's like, you niggas stick. Like, what's going on?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I smell it every day, even in the house. Yeah, I learned that those scents do well for me because you have to test it out. And I tell people all the time, I'm like, test your test your skin. You know what I'm saying? Moisturize your skin, put them on, put it on the uh, the focal points of your like your um your wrists, your elbows, not your elbows, but inside your, you know, like your arm, everything. Smell it. Let it last. You know what I'm saying? Spray it on there at six o'clock and then come back at eight or nine and smell it. You know what I'm saying? Because that is.
SPEAKER_06It's small to change, it can oxidize and change.
SPEAKER_05Exactly. Because I can spray something on me and I can spray something on my brother, and it'd be two different, it's it's different. It's your pH balance.
SPEAKER_06Your body, yes. You do I I never, oh, it smells good. Oh, okay, that's cute, but I still need to smell it on me because it's certain things I can wear, and then my mom is like, this smells like shit and piss water on me, but it smells like she's giving me things, and then I'm like, oh, this smells good. She was like, damn, it didn't smell like that on me.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And vice versa.
SPEAKER_05And the thing about it is, like, with body mists and fragrances and oils, you can't patent. No one can patent oils or fragrances or anything. So that's why when you see a lot of like Instagram ads and stuff like that, people like making their own fragrances like more affordable, right? You can't, like, they can make the same scent. Now, here's the thing: they might not have as expensive oils in the fragrance, but they can create something because you can't patent a fragrance. And that's why you have all of these, you know, different brands creating their own fragrances and things of that nature, right?
SPEAKER_06And that's why you have to list out the keynotes because some people might be allergic to certain things. So if I see, okay, this YSL Libra, and I know the notes of that by heart. It's lavender, vanilla, and I forget, it's another one. It's another three. It's three notes.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I've smelled certain mimics of that, and I'm like, okay, that smells good. But you're right. It's not gonna last as long because, you know, the quality or the percentage of the oil. That's why it's like, y'all have to pay attention. Sometimes things can say oil de toilette, which is like weak, or like or the perfume or or, you know, oudi perfume extra dose. You because it's percentages of oil. The higher the oil, the stronger it is. And I'm a person, I like to smell good. So if if I can afford an intense version, I got it. Like I have, I'm almost out of my um born and valentino, um, Donna Born and Roma Valentino intense. I'm gonna have to actually come back off of that $230. But I've had it for a very long time. But like I wear that on special occasions because when I wear that, what you got on?
SPEAKER_05And I'll say this, I'll say this with body mist. If you are a person, especially now in the summer, that loves body mist, just make sure you reapply that. That body mist is not gonna stay on you for, you know, your whole day at work. You have to reapply that. You gotta go in the bathroom, you gotta reapply it. You gotta make sure you are smelling good. Nobody, let me tell you something. That is the worst thing that I've ever had to deal with. It's being at work and smelling somebody funky, and you have to work beside them.
SPEAKER_06Ciao.
SPEAKER_05I remember my Starbucks days where I used to come in, you know, and at Starbucks it's crazy because they would say, Oh, you can't have heavy fragrances. Bitch, who?
SPEAKER_06We smell coffee all day. Y'all ain't gonna smell me. Coffee is a natural salad.
SPEAKER_05Hello?
SPEAKER_06Oh, because they have coffee beans in perfume houses to reset your nose.
SPEAKER_05Exactly. So when people used to come in, they'd be like, Oh my god, you're like, you smell really good. Exactly. Because I knew what notes to put on on my body.
SPEAKER_06And and let me tell and and uh I'm not even trying to be shady. This is just a fact. There is nothing that's beating good old soap, opening that ass and washing good old deodorants, scrubbing, good body, because we have some people that just don't like fragrance, which is fine. But then, you know, even when I think about you know, because again, we are living in tough times. The economy is complete booty ho.
SPEAKER_05Unprecedented times, baby, yeah.
SPEAKER_06Unprecedented, unprecedented times, right?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Gossier, Ultra, Sand and Fog. Yes. It's been some things that I found in like a TJ Maxx or Marshall's that was kind of like a one-off. I'm like, damn, they don't even make this anymore. It was $16 and this shit is carrying me all day. I I have a praline sent a praline pistachio perfume. I try to wear it spanagely because you can't purchase it online. It's literally only made for TJ. So when I see it, I buy it. But I people buy it, they talk a lot on TikTok all the time about, oh, if you see by if I next time I see 20, I'm gonna buy 20 because it smells that good. But it was $16 and I bought it by chance. And when I say it lasts on me, and I usually layer it with um, I layer it in the wintertime, my shag off ooh gold.
SPEAKER_03Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_05Please. I'll I'll say this. Touchland, um, known for the hand sanitizers, they have body mist now. Touchland has body mist now. Yeah, it's $20. So each one of them is $20. They smell good. And I'll even give you another one. Old Spice. You can go into your drugstores, get Old Spice. They have cologne mist now. Now, this for the fellas and everything like that. They smell good.
SPEAKER_06Old Spice.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Oh, yeah. They smell good. And then I'll give you one, I'll give you another one that you can find at the drugstores. Cremo. C-R-E-M-O. Cream.
SPEAKER_06Yes. I love Cremo. Love Cremo. C-R-E-M-O.
SPEAKER_05Yes, cremo. I have two of their colognes, Edu Toilette. Um, but they honest, no, I am dead ass. They, I sprayed that on me, I think, a couple of weeks ago. And I'm saying, I'm like, damn, I just I still smell that. And someone sat beside me, was like, what you got on? I said, cremo. And they was like, really? Because they have Edu Toilets, they have deodorizing spray. Listen, what I did. You said what? They got soap, they got, yeah, they got everything. But I tell you what, that damn cologne, it lasts. Okay? Once you put it in the right spots, make sure you take your, your, your ass, your black ass, a bath first. Water, soap, shampoo, whatever you gotta do, make sure you clean your ass, okay? When you get out of the shower, moisturize your body. It can be fragrance-free. You can use acetophil or whatever lotion you decide to use, right? Layer that shit on, okay? And it don't have to be, I think what we're like people don't understand is you don't have to be violently like spraying it all over you. It's literally a one, two, three, four, boom.
SPEAKER_06That's it. That's it. Yeah, I'm that person. I do 80,000 sprays. I don't know.
SPEAKER_05No, no, no. But you, it's dip, so it's no, you're right. It's different. Because women, they go, listen, women, they gonna smell, they're gonna smell good, but we also want the niggas to smell good. Okay?
SPEAKER_06Yeah, because the oh child.
SPEAKER_05I know, I know. The worst thing you could do is is is be beside a nigga and he just funky. Like, I just think that as a Ooh girl. Yeah, that mouth. Yeah. I hate I hate sitting beside a nigga that's that's that's that smells good, but then they open that mouth. Woo! Wait a minute. Dennis! Dennis! What the fuck is going on? Fucking alatois.
SPEAKER_06I never heard I was at a rap party. I was 1920. Uh-huh. We were, I think I was 20 because I had came back from studying abroad. And um it was a was it a kappa party I was at in Terrehood? I was at a kappa party. Baby, this dude was so cute. He well, he was down, he was fine. He was fine. He opened his mouth and my eyebrows went straight in the words. Oh, Joanne's camera. They went straight to the back of my head. And when I tell you, I was so turned off I said, how could I say, how can somebody in this fine birth be that Thinking. I said, oh, I felt like his the smell of his birth was in my nose for the rest of the night.
SPEAKER_05Oh God. And that's the worst. That's the because you I was so angry.
SPEAKER_06Like I was, I was pissed.
SPEAKER_05But it's like that's the worst because you be you be won to tell him, like, hey, like, I'm gonna tell you right now on this fucking podcast, if I ever offer you a mint, that means your breath is funky. And I'm trying to be polite. I'm trying to be polite and let you know that your breath, like you need something. Like your breath stinks, please.
SPEAKER_06Right. Do that shit. Oh, you know, nah, bitch, you need it.
SPEAKER_05You need it. No, no, no, take one. I'd be like, no, no, no, take one. They be like, oh, for real?
SPEAKER_06I'm good.
SPEAKER_05Are you? No, you're not good. I told, I told I told my friend at work. I said, he.
SPEAKER_06I see, bitch. See, look at you.
SPEAKER_05Your boy walked up on me and I said, Oh, here you go. He was like, No, I'm good. I said, No, you're not. He goes, Oh shit, for real.
SPEAKER_07I said, I said, Yeah, you need to take care of that.
SPEAKER_05Your boy went in the bathroom with his toothbrush. He had his toothbrush and mouthwash and everything. I said, What did you eat? He goes, Oh, a Philly cheesesteak. That'll do it. That'll do it. That'll do it. That'll do it. Oh, okay. Well, I'm so glad we had that conversation because I was just like, you know what? Like something. We need, we need something. I know it's a lot of bullshit going on right now, but we need that moment, especially on this podcast.
SPEAKER_07For sure.
SPEAKER_05Sure. Speaking of a lot of bullshit going on, let's talk about streaming university. Um, so here's the thing. A lot of Hispanics and we'll say Latinx community. List, yes, yes. Look, we'll say that to incorporate it all of yeah. A lot of the Latinx community um is feeling away about Casa Nets Streamer University. Um they're saying that the numbers was like 84% black, and then like maybe four or five percent like Latinx or something like that. But here's my thing, and I'm just gonna say it like this Casinet is black. Why like me, if I was a Latinx person, right? Okay, no, no, no, take that out of the equation. I'm a black person, right? If Shakira, if Shakira has something, right? Like a Shimmer University or um and she gets all I don't know, 60, 70% Latinx women, right? Or just Latinx period. You think black people are gonna be like mad about that? No. It's Shakira. Like, that's her community. So I think the confusion is not the fact that they're getting on there, it's the fact that they don't want every time black people do something or black people have something, it's not our responsibility to include everybody. And I think that's where the buck stops for me, because I couldn't be costing it. I'd be like, What did y'all think was gonna happen? Like, I'm helping niggas. I'm helping niggas out. And a lot of y'all Latinx like to say nigga. We hear nigga, but we don't see nigga. So a lot of y'all were like, well, why didn't he get why did because he says nigga in his content. Why the fuck would Casa Nett put someone in Streamer University using the word nigga and you have no blackness in you? That doesn't make no sense at all. That's not a word. Y'all don't use y'all racial words. Like, why come on now? Think about it. It's not that hard. Stop getting on this fucking app talking about, oh, well, you know, streaming streamer university is a black. It's owned by a black dude. His name is Cassinette. If you didn't know he's black, well, you know now.
SPEAKER_06Now you know. Am I correct?
SPEAKER_05Um and speaking is also gonna be included in our shit, and I'm just like, like it's just, it's just, I mean, I don't even think why we we I don't even understand why we have to keep explaining this shit. Black people choose to include you guys. We don't have to.
SPEAKER_06But that's part of their problem. We've always included them on the for on the on the I'm gonna say, on the guise of being good people.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06No, stop that shit. This is the point. I say, don't call me personal color, call me black.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, thank you.
SPEAKER_06I mean, look at how now you know you have a lot of those Latin people who were fans of Cosinette. Now he's a nigger, and I've seen like them trash talking, just like Argentina. Like, y'all bitches are fucking racist, bitch.
SPEAKER_05Of course. That's why. Let's not get into the history of Argentina, because we could go down that motherfucking road.
SPEAKER_06Nazi country.
SPEAKER_05Let's keep it cute. Um Father. But yeah, Cosinette uh kicked off the second annual stream of university with the uh command center to keep his eye on students and staff. He has, my God, I'm not, you know what? This is crazy. He has all of these. This boy is more than 100 creators were selected for the multi-day immersive program, which launched July 14th under guidance from uh Sunet, along with professors Duke Dennis, uh Agent, Pootie, Lizzo, and more. Oh, okay. All right, Lizzo. Students will be taught how to build their online brand. Leading musical arts is I hate you, dude. Leading musical arts is T Pain, who's a master following of 1 million on Twitch. Come on, T Pain. I love you, T Pain.
SPEAKER_06Let me tell you something. T Kane is so damn funny. I follow his YouTube channel. I'm watching Game None of that shit. He is just natural, and I follow him on TikTok. He is naturally entertaining. T Pain is funny as hell.
SPEAKER_05I remember he said he didn't know how to. He was talking. I don't know who he was talking to. He was in an interview and he said, I don't know how to use the messages on Instagram. And when someone taught me how to do it, I was getting DMs from Viola Davis, Michael B. Jordan, Michelle Obama. And he was like, and he was like, I looked at the date and it was like 43 weeks ago, 56 weeks ago.
SPEAKER_06He was like, what the fuck?
SPEAKER_05And like he was so.
SPEAKER_06I wasn't about to see their management or anything, but I was like, I would have been like, hey, you need to check that.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. And he was like, he was like, I didn't have like my team, like, I didn't give them the passcodes or the passwords for none of my like social medias because, you know, I was just posting. And he was like, but now they they got it. So if I get a DM or something like that, it's on site. I was like, fuck yeah. And I'm and I'm glad that he's one of those celebrities. He was like, I really wasn't thinking about that. And then when they start, like they kept sending me messages, I was like, what the fuck is going on? Why is this red dot still here? You know?
SPEAKER_06Um that sounds like such an old man thing to say.
SPEAKER_05I'm done. I'm done. Students were met with surprises that rejected applicants missed out on. In a pre-recorded video, Drake congratulated the 2026 class and announced that every student will receive a care package in their dorm room. Those packages included Nocta collab with Nike apparel and a bottle of his newest Better World fragrance. Oh. Okay. Well, it's up. Streamer University 2026 is in full effect. And uh yeah, congratulations to Casinet. Hope your mental um is is really good. Um, it seems like you are getting there. Um, and congratulations to uh what I think, the second, second Streamer University. Um, yeah, congratulations, man. Um, and to all the 100 creators that were selected. Good job. Good job.
SPEAKER_06Congratulations to you all.
SPEAKER_05Um so let's go into some shit here in Tennessee. Oh, Lord. So, exclusive. Marsha Blackhorn, Blackburn, you know, I call her Blackhorn because I really feel like she's the devil.
SPEAKER_06Marcia Lane.
SPEAKER_05Marcia Blackburn uh faced Senate ethics probe over use of tax dollars for political campaigns. I have the video um that I'm going to got it in my saved collection. Yeah, oh, I got it in my saved collection. You don't have to worry. I got it. Two hours ago, Kamala Harris, before the president gets on television tonight to peddle lies and conspiracy theories, here's what you need to know. The 2020 election was not stolen. We won and he lost. Oops. Girl, Auntie said, bitch, you bitch, the same act is voter suppression. It is part of a larger agenda of conservatives trying to steal power from the people. I'm gonna read all of this. Fuck this. This is more interesting to me. It this Kamala Harris, Donald Trump and his administration have done nothing to bring down the cost of housing, health care, child care, food, or gas. Donald Trump and his administration got America into a war that people do not want. He is attempting to distract you from that reality. The president is scared of your power and he wants you to believe your vote does not matter. He wants you to lose confidence in our electoral system so you stay home this November. He knows how disc discontent. Okay, all right, uh, they probably made it up. Discontent Yeah, hold on. It was yeah, discontent the American people are, and he wants to make sure that you do not vote. Because if the people vote in their numbers, Republicans will lose. And last but not least, I know things are heavy right now, and we have a lot of work to do. Voting is one important step we can take to make our voices heard, prove that we are still in this fight, and put a real check on this corrupt and cruel administration. Visit IWillvote.com to check your voter registration and your voting location right now. And that is from the VP herself, Auntie Kamala.
SPEAKER_06Speaking of VP, her husband were at was at a women's basketball game. Shout out to the DJ. Yeah they introduced some DJ playing I Miss You by Aaron Hall. And then the second song was I rather be with J. Yeah, I'm like, I was too late for that.
SPEAKER_03I don't know. You know you don't fucked up, don't you?
SPEAKER_05Um, but see, this is what I'm talking about right here.
SPEAKER_03Here's Lexi.
SPEAKER_08New campaign finance reports are giving a closer look at who is funding Tennessee's race for governor. Records show some employees from artificial intelligence and data center companies donated the maximum legal amount to Senator Marsha Blackburn's campaign.
SPEAKER_00And many of these employees live outside of Tennessee. News Tuesday.
SPEAKER_05That's all I need to hear. She's a fucking con. She is, if we vote, if we vote this devil, and I she is a devil, if we vote her, she is 72 years old. This woman is 72 years old. She needs to be somewhere else. She needs to be at home somewhere. Now, and this is my question. If you wouldn't want your mom and your dad running for governor of Tennessee, why would you want Marcia Blackburn running?
SPEAKER_06Like, what has she done for any damn body?
SPEAKER_05What has she done? Instead of be a lap dog for Trump.
SPEAKER_06And be a racist. Oof.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. I mean, she's all of that. I mean, she agrees with everything that this administration is doing. And you see, and you heard from that video that she's gotten the illegal amount of donations from AI data centers. So what are we doing right now? Tennessee, and besides us being, besides us being ranked number the number one worst state in the nation.
SPEAKER_06Number freaking one.
SPEAKER_05How the fuck did we beat Oklahoma in Arkansas? That's what I want to. In Mississippi. In Louisiana.
SPEAKER_06I love Louisiana.
SPEAKER_05I know you do, baby. But I'm just, I'm just, I'm just saying. How do we how how? How? Healthcare is shit here. Um the mortality uh maternity uh rate here is shit.
SPEAKER_06Um We have one of the few worst job markets in the fucking country.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_06You would have the natural expanding how it is and uh and and where we are being so close to, well, where I am being so close to Nashville that that will help. It doesn't. Because everybody's moving here from different states. The cost of living is sky fucking high. Nobody can afford to buy a house. Yeah, and then it's just like in Tennessee, they want them they want you to make three or sometimes four times the amount of rent. How y'all ain't paying nobody to make that much?
SPEAKER_05And then you bring these corporations, these Fortune 500 corporations, and you give them multi-million dollar tax breaks, which they don't have to pay any type of income tax, no taxes at all, for a certain amount of time, 10 plus years. Our infrastructure is shit. And then you're talking about a fucking, but oh, don't worry, guys, we got the Super Bowl coming in 2030. Bitch, fuck the Super Bowl. How they gonna get here? How they gonna get across them bridges? How they gonna get to the stadium? Where are they gonna get?
SPEAKER_06The way I'm gonna be inside my house, don't call me no more, don't text me no more.
SPEAKER_05I'm not doing Let me tell you something. Thank God that we are not. Listen, we're close, but we're not that close. Baby, inside the house. Okay?
SPEAKER_06Listen, I better get y'all some groceries, get your tissue, whatever you need. Tell your boss, look, I'm not coming in. I'm working from home today.
SPEAKER_05Listen, when I tell you, hey, take your vacation. If you live in Tennessee, you live in middle Tennessee, take your vacation the week of the Super Bowl in 2030. Because baby, but who knows? Who knows? We maybe, maybe, you know, this year we can vote in Jerry Green. And maybe she can change some shit up. I will start putting right now. I think it's the time where we need to start putting vote for Jerry Green. And I'll be, I'll start doing that. I will put it underneath our podcast, or y'all can go to her uh campaign and vote because she is getting a lot of traction. And I need a national news. I need the national news to start taking some type of, you know, leeway into interviewing her because what she is saying, she's trying to legalize marijuana.
SPEAKER_06Yes.
SPEAKER_05She's trying to use that money to fix our roads, our bridges. She's trying to give uh pre-K kindergarten free childcare. Like, come on. Don't even get me started on how much money Tennessee gives to another country. But that's another conversation for another motherfucking day. Um so, yeah, we're we're we're done with Marcia uh Khan Blackhorn.
SPEAKER_06That motherfucker been in the office as I've been for.
SPEAKER_05And ain't done nothing. Ain't done shit for Tennessee.
SPEAKER_06But shake that flat ass person go and her damn.
SPEAKER_05And running and running after news reporters. Uh-uh.
SPEAKER_06This is Marsha Black.
SPEAKER_05Shut yours up. Like, what you doing? You went to a soda shop. A soda shop and filmed. First of all, everybody knows. Oh, what's the name of the shop?
SPEAKER_06Tell us, babe.
SPEAKER_05Hold on. Hold on, because I think you. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Hold on. Did you, hold on. Did you text, you text it to me, didn't you? Or did I text it to you? Hold on. I'm gonna find it. Don't worry, we're gonna find it. Actually, you know what I can do? I can do you one even better. Hold on. Soda shop. Nashville. Because they tried to put one here in Franklin. That shit didn't work out.
SPEAKER_06Uh-uh.
SPEAKER_05Oh, Elliston, Elliston plays Soda Shop.
SPEAKER_06Yes.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Yep. Yep, yep, yep, yep. Okay, hold on. Let me go to the news because I know these motherfuckers got some the Nashville Soda Shop where GOP Dim hopeful hopefuls film for your cookies. They are getting a lot of backlash. And you know what? They deserve it. Because why would you go ahead.
SPEAKER_06Oh, go ahead, man.
unknownGo ahead.
SPEAKER_05I'm just saying, why? Who thought this would be a fucking good idea to film, like to make that place look like a Chinese restaurant and Asian restaurant and then have a poor wrinkled up bitch who has a bunch of yes men around her who she thinks is still the fucking 90s and 80s.
SPEAKER_06Because there's no way you set your old. Because first of all, bitch, you probably was born when the when the invention of fortune cookies became a thing. Because let's not forget, fortune cookies is an American thing based off of Japanese fucking culture, but you're talking about communist China. Shut your ass up, you big dummy. But see, you probably got public Tennessee education too, so you're a little stupid. Oh, uh oh. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. If you're gonna be fucking insulting, at least be smart about the shit. And her team. Communist China. China is the number one in every fucking thing, and they take care of their people.
SPEAKER_03I can tell you.
SPEAKER_06And let's be clear, I missed TikTok when it was Chinese ran.
SPEAKER_03Uh, uh oh.
SPEAKER_05Uh-oh. You can tell that she and her team are a bunch of dummies that think China is taking over the world.
SPEAKER_06Well, make a checkpoint. Shit.
SPEAKER_05I I'm gonna tell you like this, and I know I might get some flack for it, but I would rather have China run Tennessee than Marsha Blackburn. At least we would get free health care.
SPEAKER_06And we would get real food.
SPEAKER_03We were getting real food. That's all. Go ahead, friend. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_06The fucking fact that it is summer and a bitch can't eat a cold salad. But see, elections have consequences. This is what y'all voted for. Elections. I want us to shit on ourselves just like he is. Elections. But you cut three elections have consequences.
SPEAKER_05There you go. I was gonna say, I will go keep keep on going. Elections have consequences.
SPEAKER_06Because you didn't cut over $380 million and you cut program from programs like the CDC, FDA, and you fired all the. And the reason why our country was healthier and we could have vegetables and food because you had a lot of black women in those jobs that was protecting people.
SPEAKER_05You are located near the heart of fortune cookie production. Wu-Tan Foods operates a massive manufacturing plant in nearby Laverne, Tennessee, which pumps out roughly two million fortune cookies a day.
SPEAKER_06The jokes write themselves. Let's begin. Elections have consequences. They do. And I want to say something if he's dead or if he's not, I don't know. Quite frankly, I don't give a fuck. Mitch McConnell, as a Republican, you shouldn't have the healthcare you have because you were in the hospital from what I've been told and what I've researched allegedly over 30 days. But the average American citizen who voted for y'all fuckers, they don't have health care. So I feel like how you voted is how you should live. Go ahead and eat that lettuce, Mitch.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Because the fact that, you know, we understand the people that, you know, with common sense that voted for that black woman, we understood the just foolery, the clownery, the just the the con that this administration has been pulling. And everyone was like, well, why can't we eat lettuce? Why can't we eat lettuce? Because there's no one to inspect the vegetables. There's no one.
SPEAKER_06Or the meat. Now they're saying there's screw worms in the meat. But you see, black people don't have that problem. We clean our shit with acid with acids. Vinegars and lemons and limes. Maybe y'all might hello.
SPEAKER_05Stop playing with us. Vinegar, okay? To the T, baby. Lemon, limes. Stop playing with us. And why? And why did I go in public today and they having buy one, get one free, salad kits? Why are y'all still selling this shit? And that's another thing. See, if the CDC, if that black woman would have been in and we had some shit like that, get rid of all of it. Baby, there have been so many videos on Instagram. And threads about people going back to Publix, Kroger, all your grocery, like major grocery stores. Like, hey, I'm returning this because why do y'all still have this on like why what's going on? And it's like, oh, well, no one's told us about it.
SPEAKER_06And I got you one better. Look at all the restaurants. When you go get, think about the subways, the Jersey mics, the firehouse subs, the chocolate, you're using fresh vegetables and salad. A lot of fast food chains sell salad. I'm a Zaspies girl, so I always get their blue salads. You got Hanera, who serves a lot of fresh vegetables. They said Taco Bell, even the lettuce and tomatoes they're using on their food. So it's just like this shit just ain't. But y'all don't want a bitch to eat healthy no more.
SPEAKER_05No. And I think this is done on purpose. I really do. I think, I think, I think this is, you know, I don't even think I know it was done on purpose. Because they don't want people to eat. They don't want people to eat healthy. They don't want to pee. Like, that's why I tell people all the time. A lot of times I will cook my vegetables, onions, peppers, anything in a skillet, I will saute them. Because it just, to me, they taste better. When I saute my vegetables and everything like that, it just tastes better. Even when I'm making sandwiches, I might cut a couple, like cut a couple of onions up, put it in the skillet, saute it. Make sure that pop, pop, pop, pop, pop. Because it's who getting sick. Who getting sick?
SPEAKER_06A lot of my favorite foods I can't eat right now because I eat a lot of slant draw because I consume a lot of avocados. I do a lot, I love cold cut sandwiches. I love salads. I eat raw vegetables on my salads. And sometimes my mom, every summer, she always keeps her ranch nip in the refrigerator because we go in there, get a shitload of vegetables and eat. Like, this shit is fucking depressing. We do strawberry salads with fresh vegetables and nuts.
SPEAKER_05Like you can't even eat healthy. You can't even eat healthy anymore because the government a bunch of fucking dummies.
SPEAKER_06Y'all voted for this. Elections have consequences. But y'all hate a commonist laugh. Okay. Well.
SPEAKER_03Oh, free.
SPEAKER_05The only thing I know the all the free. Well, all I want to know where where's all the free Palestine motherfuckers? Oh, okay. Sorry. Um, let's, let's, let's, let's move.
SPEAKER_06Because you know, it's just it gets to a point. I ain't seen no free Palestine. I ain't seen no Jill's time, no independence. I ain't seen nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Nothing. I ain't seen nothing.
SPEAKER_05Because again, she took that fucking money like she does. She comes in like a fucking cockroach every four years, takes the money, and she leaves. And she did it just like we told. Black people told y'all stupid asses. This is what she does. She knows nothing about government, how the systems work, and y'all just stupid. Well, I voted third party. Why did you vote third party? Well, I just didn't like either of the candidates. You're fucking stupid. You're a bimbo. You're a fucking bum, bitch. Like you're stupid. Anybody that's sitting up here talking about, oh, well, I just didn't like the way that Kamala spoke about, bitch, now look at you. You done lost your job. You done lost your job. And guess what? The only person that you can blame that shit on is you. DEI, that shit is done. White women, you voted for this.
SPEAKER_06We'll just go to Puerto Rico, find the studio so you can drop some beats. Um, just get down to Yeah.
SPEAKER_04No, no, no. You you go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
SPEAKER_06This is a documentary I found that I came across on my threads that called, huh? Hmm? Hello. Are we having some technical difficulties? Can you hear me? Okay. Y'all, I'll have to tell my thing. I had to turn it off. Are we? Oh, I can hear and see you. It's just fine. Oh, child, the ghetto. Um teach.
SPEAKER_05I don't know what the fuck is going on with Riverside, but goddamn. I'm here.
SPEAKER_06I miss streaming your. I can hear and see you. I'm talking to you.
SPEAKER_05I see you now.
SPEAKER_06Okay, you see me now?
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_05Can you hear me? I see you now. This shit is getting on my nerves. This shit is really getting on my nerves. I don't know what the fuck is going on, Riverside. They really need to stop doing all these fucking updates. I swear. I can see you now.
SPEAKER_06Can you hear me?
SPEAKER_05I can hear you.
SPEAKER_06You can hear me now?
SPEAKER_05I can hear you. I can hear you.
SPEAKER_06Oh, okay. Who was saying that that was just like, oh god. Yeah, baby. Shout out, shout out to go! Um, listen. It was a funny thing.
SPEAKER_05We're gonna probably gonna have to find another fucking platform if this shit keeps going on.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, I know. Well, uh oh, um, I wanna tell TJ so irritating.
SPEAKER_05I don't know what the fuck is going on with River. Let me let me let me just look this shit up. Like, why is Riverside always fucking having issues? Like I was.
SPEAKER_06I know you did, boo.
SPEAKER_07I'm I wanna dwell and I forgot.
SPEAKER_03What was that? Issues twenty, twenty-six.
SPEAKER_04Oh go ahead, Bo.
SPEAKER_06Okay, so there's this documentary that I came across on my Threads account, and it was a clip from the sick bastard that I want you guys to hear. Now, the name of the film is called it's a film on domestic violence, so I just want to do a trigger warning there. It's called Behind the Rage, America's Domestic Violence. So the young lady who made the film is Dea Khan. Um, but this clip that I came across was so disturbing. I'm about to play it for you guys, and again, I just want to provide a trigger warning because it is domestic violence and it talks about violence against women. So please, if you are not strong enough, or if you if this is a trigger point for you, because I'm not strong enough to complete this, uh to complete this documentary, because I just I couldn't stomach it, but this clip is what pulled me in. So please, guys, if you want to turn this off, please turn it off now. Because I'm about to play this clip. Because I want to I want you guys to hear how psycho this motherfucker is.
SPEAKER_02I think I've been arrested about seven times. But on one instance, I went to jail for domestic violence twice in one day. I went to jail. Then I went and found her and beat her up for calling police on me, and then went back again. Only one night.
SPEAKER_01So d did any of the women get restraining orders or protection orders or something.
SPEAKER_02Oh, that don't mean nothing to me. Restraining on a piece of paper. They ain't gonna stop you from doing nothing. It ain't over till I say it's over.
SPEAKER_01Like many former abusers, Charles says he was violent because he developed the view that men should be in charge of women.
SPEAKER_02I never considered myself a woman beater, per se, because I didn't just hit women for nothing. I figure if I had a reason, then it was just not being a woman beater, it was justified with corrective actions. It was trying to get some compliance.
SPEAKER_06And this fucker starts to cry. Y'all, ladies. And men, if you are going through domestic violence situations as well, nobody's excluded from this. And again, I live in the state of Tennessee, you know? Start killing these motherfuckers. Put them on t-shirts, shoot them. Cause bitch, you're not finna hit me. And then I think my issue, they don't take domestic violence seriously, just like they don't take pedophilia seriously in this country. Your president, pedophile. You have officers and police officers, like people that are supposed to protect this country, mil men in military, and men in like the uh law for men in law enforcement, they beat the hell out of their partners. Who wanna report the police? So you gotta see that. His mama's gonna be wearing a black dress. My daddy didn't even fucking hit me, but you think you're gonna hit me because of your ego or because I said something you didn't like? Okay.
SPEAKER_05These men, these men really want to sleep with men.
SPEAKER_06Oh, uh. Jesus.
SPEAKER_05I mean, that's it. I mean, anybody that sits around just beats their wife up and da-da-da-da, but always say, like you want, you really, you really want to date, like you really want a man. That's it. Like you really want a man because you, if you want to tussle, bitch, tussle with a man. Tussle with a man.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, okay.
SPEAKER_06I think the thing that shocked me was, you know, you heard him say, and I went to jail twice in one day. And bitch, you would have got shot twice. Um big fat ignorant fuck.
SPEAKER_05You would have got shot twice too. Because, bitch, who the f like what? Oh, you want some more? And then you want to Oh, you want some more.
SPEAKER_06Ladies, and if you know you have some, I don't like, okay. Y'all need and and this is why I don't understand. I hate when I hear us. I'm not, we're not our ancestors. Talk to your grandmamas. Listen, I it's an elder woman in my family. Been married four times, okay? There is a reason why. Okay? Bull grits, pour hot syrup, brown some sugar on these holes, boil and melt some butter, okay? And do not listen to that motherfucker. Get you a paper trail. So if you have to kill this bitch, I had a restraining owner on him and he broke. Okay. But if you don't feel comfortable with a gun, there are other ways. Why you think a lot of our grandmothers and aunties and elder women, and especially black families, are known a four, fifth, sixth husband. Okay.
SPEAKER_03They didn't take no shit.
SPEAKER_06You could that nigga fool.
SPEAKER_03They didn't take no shit.
SPEAKER_06Put that bitch to sleep. But I listen, I'm not the biggest Tyler Perry fan. I sick take Medea's a mistress straw, but Medea said one thing that you gotta keep you a piece of steel to keep the piece, okay? Baby, I got my piece of steel.
SPEAKER_04Hello?
SPEAKER_06Got me a taser in the night.
SPEAKER_05Do you have yours? That's the question.
SPEAKER_06Baby, my piece of steel keeps me safe, though.
SPEAKER_05That nigga said. That nigga said, I don't care about no piece of paper. That's just a piece of paper. Oh, okay. Bring your black ugly hands over here. I'm gonna show you. It's just a piece of paper.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, and then what I say is over.
SPEAKER_05You're gonna be seeing the fucking concrete. You're gonna be talking about it. You're gonna be talking to the concrete.
SPEAKER_06Uh-uh. We finna have a encore, encore Cheryl Lynn, bitch. You finna die today. And if you and like I said, and I'm just gonna leave it alone, and if you feel like, especially for black people, our mother, which again, we there is a conversation with how much we coddle black men, especially black heterosexual men in our community. But you don't think our grandmothers, our aunties, and our mommas was dealing with niggas hand over foot, especially back in them days when there weren't machine and orders. There weren't police supports, not for black people. They was taking these niggas out. A lot of them beautiful plant fields and trees. I'm I can do is speak on the state of Georgia, because that's where I'm from. Well, you see, really, really love my, I had an auntie tell me, a great aunt tell me one time. You see them beautiful plants and trees over there? Luscious plum pecan trees and orchards. Yes, ma'am. A lot of times there's a man buried up under them that's fertilizing the soil. Didn't understand that shit at seven, eight, nine, seven, eight years old. Oh, but I get it, maybe nine, ten, because that's what I'm about to say. So, oh, but baby, I get it now. Y'all was killing niggas and burying them. Okay. Noted.
SPEAKER_05Because why is she putting your hands on me? You think you can continue to put your when I told you, don't do that shit again. And you said, oh, bet. Oh, you thought I was fucking playing.
SPEAKER_06First of all, let's be clear. The nigga do it one time, he gonna do it again. There's no such thing, bitch. Don't hit me at all. Ain't no do it again, because bitch, I'm a sick bitch. Uh oh. You gonna put your hands on me? I'm gonna have your ass up in the chatterhootie. Don't play with me.
SPEAKER_07Stupid ass.
SPEAKER_04Ooh, baby, that's a chatterhootie.
SPEAKER_06You see, I got a dad in my life that cares about me. Hmm. James Worth singing, do not play about his baby. Please. Slow singing, slower bringing. Ladies, bring that thing back.
SPEAKER_05Ladies, get you, yes. Get you a uh uh, you know, a trail, you know, go to the police, you know, get a restraining order, do everything that you're supposed to do by the law. Whatever, girl. Um, do just get you have all the trail, you know. Yeah. Because you break into my house, you done. You gone. Well Kamala, what Kamala here said, if she if someone breaks into my house, they're getting shot. He said I shouldn't say that. She said, but she said that uh Oprah, she said, if you break into my house, your ass is getting shot.
SPEAKER_06And I can see her do her silk press so nice. You want to break into my house? Oh, she ain't playing. Kabala will shoot a shit out of somebody. She's from California after all. Do not play with Kabala. Kabala is not to be played with. She will shoot your ass in a silk press. No, not a silk press. You know, it's stuck to you, but I get round rushed, yeah. Girl, play with Kamala if you want to.
SPEAKER_05Oh, Lord Jesus. My God today. Um, all right. Well, next up, um Go ahead, baby. This is all you okay.
SPEAKER_06I have been sitting with this conversation for at least the past week, but in particular yesterday, it was just an interview that I came across on TikTok, and of course, my ass went over to YouTube and just was watching interview after interview after interview, looking at social media pages of both of this baby's parents, and I'm extremely disappointed. I wasn't even gonna bring it up. I need parents, black parents to listen to me. Nolan Wales Hold on I gotta sneeze. Bless me. Nolan Wales. I truly feel like his parents set him up for failure. And they are part of the reason why this baby is not on this side on the earthly realm. I heard his dad in the interview that came across my feed say he don't see color and he taught his son not to see color. That right there changed my whole perception of this entire case. What the hell do you mean you taught your black presenting son, even though he is half Asian, but you don't see the Asian community rallying behind him? What do you mean you taught your black presenting son in the state of fucking Mississippi and in Deep South not to see color? What are we talking about? And with conversations and verbiage and words that come out like that, that leads me to believe you never had to talk with your son. He was comfortable being one. Even when his classmates came and paid respects, it was nothing but a bunch of white kids and the speckle of maybe one or two black kids. So your children used to be the only. Y'all set that boy up for failure. And like I've said it, and like TJ have said, I looked at that picture with Nolan and the three white boys, and I knew he was instantly dead. I hated it happen to you. But we have to stop living in La La Land. Those people used to eat us. Those people do everything in their power to keep us down systemically. They hate white people, some and not all, but I'm I'm not prefacing that. You know what? I'm gonna stop prefacing. I said that's gonna stop doing that. But the bulk of white people hate when we laugh. There were laws in this country under the Jim Crow law that kept niggas from laughing in fucking public. So you mean tell me y'all are surprised that this same group of people who are also their ancestors are killing us ritualistically, by the way? Get the fuck out of Dodge, man. Have these talks with your black children. I don't give a damn. If you in East Coast, West Coast, Dirty South, if you're rich, poor, bro, y'all need to have these talks with your children. Then people are not your friends. My rule of thumb was shit. If I don't see more than two or three that I know that I'm cool with on a personal level, and that was me being grown going to white college, I wasn't fucking going. Because if our rule of thumb was, bitch, if we leave together, if we came together, we're leaving together. If one of us don't make it back, none of us making it the fuck back. You have to have your head on the swivel from childhood. So was that the most politically correct thing to say at this time? No. But did it need to be said? Yeah, because now we need to have these conversations because clearly shit has been putting on the back. I feel like a lot of y'all, when Barack Obama became president, y'all thought we were in the post-racial society. That was not the fucking case. This man was still getting called a nigger by white people, and he was the president of the free country at the time. Okay. I have a lot more that I can say. But I know I just said something that was really heavy. And I know I probably said something that's gonna piss off some people, piss off our people, you know, because this is a black podcast for black folks, but it had to be said. And for the Asian community, not all of y'all. Because some of y'all, I've seen some of y'all have some solid takes, stand in solidarity with black people and who understand why we feel the way we feel, especially in this boycotting Asian business and everything that's going on. But I found it mighty funny that y'all came out and drove to yell at black people and be mad, that y'all are losing out of black dollars, y'all's restaurants, y'all's salons are fucking empty. But Nolan, from the looks of it, he's he's either half or quarter Asian, because look at his mama. I have not, I have yet to see the same, you know, this, the same, the same rich y'all from your community. There was no stop the Asian. Asian hate for this? Why? Ask yourself that question. Sit with it and ask yourself that question. Cause he's a full Asian, because he don't look like y'all. But y'all mad niggas not spending our money in y'all hair stores, y'all nail shots to y'all restaurants. Shows me where your pri your priorities are. I know it was heavy, friend. I had to do it because this was on my heart.
SPEAKER_05No, you're good. I mean, you said everything that, you know, we talked about it before. Um, and I said, yeah, I like we need to talk about it because, you know, me being a black man, being raised, you know, being born in Nashville and being raised in a suburb outside of Nashville, we've had this talk, you know. I'm actually, you know, could have been a Nolan Wells. Um it is it's crazy because it's crazy because as soon as I saw that picture, I knew exactly what was going on. Because I went to school. I went to school, public school with these same white people, and they would do little fucking jokes. They see the thing about middle school and high school, white kids, when they joke, it always has to be something about racism. It always has to be making fun of someone else's culture. And I I I I I already knew. I was like, I seen that fucking picture. I was like, they did it. Allegedly, I guess. I guess I can say that. Whatever, fuck it. But it's just, it's just, it's a lot going on. And to be a black parent, a black dad, and then be a black mama, and then sit up there and say, Oh, we don't see color. You've already lost. You've already lost. Because when they look at you, they see a nigga. They see niggers. That's what they see. And some people want to say, oh, well, no, everyone. Listen, I'm gonna say it just like this. It's not all white people, but it's always a white person.
SPEAKER_06Flock it.
SPEAKER_05Just like that. It it's not all white people, but it's always a white person. You can never mind your fucking business. Everything has to go the way that you want it to go. It doesn't work like that. That is, again, I said this last podcast. We are not, and we have never been in a post-racial society. And niggas need to stop thinking like that because it will get you fucking killed. If you think like that, you are putting yourself in danger. I think the last time, and I'm gonna tell y'all a quick story. I went to this place called, it's like a small little, small little place here in Tennessee. It's called Lapras Fork. It's out there in the boonies. And I remember being in the car with four other white people, and I was the only, I was, I think at the time I was, I think it was 17. I think it was 17, yeah. We went to Libra's Fork. And I remember going to this bonfire and seeing nothing but white people. And you know how me and you talk when that feeling, you sense something. You know what I'm saying? You sense it, but you can't just, you can't, you know, you don't know what it is, right? Some of the people were like, yo, let's go out into the woods and you know, let's explore. And I said, Oh no. I said, I'm good. Like, you like you don't want to come? I said, no, I'm good. I sat my black ass right there on that chair, and I said, let me tell you something. I knew that my cousin lived 15 minutes away. I knew my cousin lived 15 minutes away. And this is the time where cell phones, you know, they weren't as fast. All you basically could do was call and text, really. I knew my cousin lived 15. Exactly. But at that particular time, I had one fucking bar, Ashley. One fucking bar. Jesus. And you know what my black ass did? I called my cousin. I said, hey, I'm in Leapers Fork. I'm walking towards the road. I said, I'm going to, I want to tell you what road it is. I need you to fucking come get me. She said, she said, who are you with? I said, a bunch of fucking white people. And they're trying to walk into the fucking woods. She said, oh, fuck no. She already knew. She hung that phone up. She got there in 10 minutes and picked my black ass up. I called, I had one of those white boys' phone numbers. I called and I said, hey, my cousin came and picked me up. He goes, Oh, yeah, we were looking for you. You don't worry about it. I'm good. I'm with my family. I literally I had never felt anything like that before. It felt like it like honestly, the ancestor was telling me, get the fuck out of here. Get the fuck out of here. You're not supposed to be here. And let me tell you something. That that stuck with me. That stuck with me like for years, Ashley. I would get flashed. Like, I just get flashed, but like that was such a weird and like it was almost like the answers, like they were about to do something. My cousin came and picked me up, baby.
SPEAKER_06Very valid feeling. That is that is a valid feeling. And like, think about it if you didn't do anything or if you didn't take heed to that one and that ancestors gave you. Even like with me, I remember. Now, I always tell y'all, I went to a PWI, which stands for Predominantly White Institution. Right. And I've shared, I think, I don't know if it's, I think I've shared it here, but also I've talked about it on Sisters and Sync. None of the black dudes there dated white girls, dated the black girls. Like we were kind of like the nobodies in the dating world, right? However, comma, when I would walk in a party, my eyes were instantly dark because it was always my best friend at the time, me and her always party together. So damn near she went with me to 98% of the parties I went with, and we always had one or two other people. But our me and her especially was always the two of us, maybe plus a few, but it damn sure was you were gonna see, you would never see one of us without the other. This particular time, I think it was me and her, and we went to this party, and we would always like look to see how the basketball players, you know. And a lot of the times it wasn't even because we wanted to talk to them, we said, all right, it's other niggas have been here. Or we will we hung out with some of the girls from the girls' basketball team. There was other black students on campus, other black people that were sparingly in the fraternities or sororities, right? This particular party we had them, uh we hadn't gone to and walk in, and like I told, I did my friend just like this. I said, I put my hand in front of her, I said, stop. We walked in that bitch. Everybody had turned toward us and nothing but why. I said, ooh. I said, uh-uh. We I I said, we're we're leaving. She's like, you want to go? I said, we're fucking leaving now. And I didn't even get through out the door. Because like I said, I put my arm in front of her like I was her man. Was like, oh no. I had a feeling that was so strong, I said, mm-mm. Yeah. And then I remember one time I got invited to a party, and it was just me and this one white girl I was cool with. And let's just say it was a particular crowd. And we both wanted to see what was going on at these parties. Couldn't find out a bunch of white kids doing like hardcore drugs. I'm not talking like just like, well, cocaine is a hardcore drug, but like they was doing some shit. So me and my friend walked in, and she was real cool. We she we walked in, and it's like this big ass house with levels to the house. So each level, it was just kind of getting more nefarious, and she was just, so we linked arms, and she was just like, you can just say the word. I said, Oh yeah, I'll say the word. So we was trying to be cool. We get to the bottom floor, and it was kind of like a full-on orgy, but it seemed like everybody was, oh, it didn't seem like, but everybody just was fucking high. And it just kind of seemed, something about the shit just felt ritualistic, just like something about it just felt so wrong. And I said, we gotta go. She said, I am in agreement with you. And I remember we're trying, like we're going up, we had to go up back to the exit because it was only one way in and one way out. And people are, we get stopped dancing by every person, like, where y'all going? Where but the party's just the fun is just starting. And, you know, the girls were just like, oh, I just threw up. Oh, okay, we'll have fun. So, and I felt like we spent probably an hour trying to leave. I, and I was freaking out, but I didn't let it show my eye like on the inside, my anxiety was so high because I said, I feel like there's a force just trying to keep us here. We tried to leave that bitch for an hour. And when we finally got outside, like I think I started crying because I was just like, bruh, I feel like we couldn't fucking leave. She was just like, I know. So we was in silence walking back to our dorm, but I remember just feeling like, so we was there for all of maybe 45 minutes. I didn't even, and I was so uncomfortable. And you know, this ain't a slight to white women, but this is just what white kids do. White women get fucked up. Like, for my wife ran to be like, she didn't drink either. We both didn't even have a drink. And she was just like, I don't know. I said, me neither. And like I said, we were locked arms. We was, but I remember just feeling like when it was time to go, something was trying to keep us there. We could, everybody was trying to stop and talk to us, like people blocking exits, like we're having to like go around people and sneak out. Like it just was the weirdest fucking thing. And as soon as I touched, I said, thank you, God. And I just I kind of had lost it because I was like, I had never felt something like that in my life. Never felt that way in my life. But it just felt just, it just felt wrong. It did.
SPEAKER_05It it will be moments in your life where you will feel that energy. And if you don't act on that energy, that energy will take over. And I feel like black parents not telling your black ass kids, hey, these are the dangers. Fuck that. Oh, we don't see color. You cannot say that. As a black individual, as a melanated being, you cannot go through this world and say you do not see color. Because they see you, they see your black ass every single day. You are a threat. And I just I know so many people wanna want to live in this. Oh, well, they're not bad people, they're not. Really? How well do you know these people? Have they invited you to their country club? Have they invited you into their home? Have they invited you like let's like let's be honest. Let's be honest. Have you met their whole family? Because you invite them to the cookout, but have they invited you to the fucking country club? To the pick. What are we doing here? Hello? Not a pick a nigga. Let me tell you something. Y'all, I'm telling you, the people that are listening, and we are so glad you guys are listening to this episode. Please tell y'all family members, if you have family members that you know, that you know are raising black kids and are saying that, well, that's not gonna happen. Hey. Hey, we are here in 2026 and we are seeing multiple kids and teenagers getting hung.
SPEAKER_06Shit, grown people, I mean getting drowned, huh?
SPEAKER_05And grown no no no, I'm just saying, I'm talking about like the kids right now, but yeah, yeah. But what I'm saying is black people in general being missing.
SPEAKER_06So even your workplace technology.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Even your workplace.
SPEAKER_06You're not I'm not obligated to spend time with you or to go to your house outside of work. I go to my job, do my eight, hit a fucking gate. Now, friends are a bonus. Because I'm a good person, I typically always gain a friend from whatever workplace I work. But 90 out of 10 for me, that friend is always another black woman. So it's just certain, like, oh, well, we're all doing, or or you know, we're leaving her out. Because that's fine. But because you left me out, I was able to show up.
SPEAKER_03I'm looking at this video right now.
SPEAKER_06What video? Nolan Wells' parents.
SPEAKER_05Oh, the father. He said, I do not think, she said, I don't want to believe that race played a part of this. You know what? At this point.
SPEAKER_06Like, nigga.
SPEAKER_05At this point.
SPEAKER_06Fucking miss. That's why I was just like.
SPEAKER_05It makes you, as a black person.
SPEAKER_06I was so disappointed. It's like it's shocking. It's right there. TJ in front of you. And here's the thing. I watched the not good yeah, Good Morning America. I watched the interview, Michael Trans. I guess I was so distraught of what happened. I really wasn't listening. But when I came across that and I watched interview after interview, I was just like, oh, they that they them type of niggas. Oh. Ooh, sinners didn't teach y'all niggas nothing. And you're not saying that it's funny, but I mean look, I mean, look at the world. It's it's we had centers based in fucking, was it Clarksdale, Mississippi? That was the biggest thing last year. For this to have this incident happen in fucking Mississippi on 4th of July weekend. How are we not connecting the fucking dots? Okay.
SPEAKER_05Well, I know we, I know we are here and we are discussing, and we we keep on saying that we're going to, you know, kind of stay on this, which we are, but it's just the fact that now we're getting this information from the parents, like we don't see color, like it's just, it's kind of like it hurts. Because why why do you not think, like what, what, what in what world do you think, or why would you think race didn't have a part to play in this? He was the outsider. He was the outsider. No matter how good friends that you think he was, and even one of the boys that said that he was the best friend, the mom came out and was like, I don't even know who that person is. And I'm just like, what is going on? What is going on in this case? Okay. We will have more on this story um next week. Um, but I just saw that. I just saw the dad said, I don't want to believe race played a part in this. Okay, man. All right. Um, but again, um Nolan Xavier Wells, you did not deserve that um at all. You didn't deserve, you should still be here with us. Okay, Ashley. Um, what's your black business?
SPEAKER_06Yes, I'm gonna give a shout out to crazy thing enough, I didn't know this young lady was from Mississippi until I got her Etsy page. Oh. This lady is from Meridian, Mississippi. Shout out to the Sip.
SPEAKER_04Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_06Her name is Angel. She owns a shop and owns a business called Hoochie Creations Co. And she makes like pop sockets, black-themed pop sockets. So her pop sockets are like Pump It Up Spray, Blue Magic, Cocoa Butter, and Pro Pro Style Gel in Pop Sockets. She makes Kindle and e-reader covers. She can custom make things. She makes digital downloadable images and posters. She makes, she's a collager, scrapbooker. She's definitely a keep, a keeper of culture, a culture cultivator, right? Right. Culture is Hoochie Creations Co. Um, we're gonna tag it um in our description, but I definitely order me a pop socket when I get paid next week because I want to support this young black lady, and I think it's innovative. And, you know, I'm gonna be surprised next few months. You have all these white companies doing shit like this in their pop sockets. And it's not that they weren't, because you know, I've seen flowers and plushies, but don't nobody use blue magic but us. You know what I'm saying? So it's very, very, very, very, very nuanced to us and our culture as black Americans. And I love business. And I want to shout out to her. Hoochie Creations Club by Miss Angel, who is from Meridi, Mississippi. Okay.
SPEAKER_05I love it. Well, a shout out to them. I am going to shout out a Nashville um original location called The Horn. Now, it is a coffee shop that um first location. Um the first location was on Murphy'sboro Pike.
SPEAKER_06Um The Horn.
SPEAKER_05H-O-R-N, the horn. We talked about it before. Yeah. Yes. Yeah, yeah. So the horn, the first location is on 619 Murphysboro Pike in Nashville, Tennessee. That's the one that I used to go to. Um, they have a second location in Midtown. Uh it's 2059 Scarrot Place, Nashville, Tennessee, 37203. And they have amazing chai. Like the chai, the sambu. Oh, oh my gosh. Fresh. Fresh. You say yes, yes. Yeah. So their menu is so good. Um, and I just want to shout them out because they've been doing some amazing things. Uh, their chai is from Kenya. It is, oh God, it's so good. Now, the cymbusas that they have is the B. Our signature traditional beef sambusa with uh serrano peppers and sauteed onions. They have the chicken, which is our classic chicken sambusa with potatoes and serrano peppers, so good. Um, and then they have a veggie, our classic veggie sambusa with potatoes, carrots, green beans, peas, and corn. Now, all of all of their food is 100% uh halal. Halal? Yeah.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_05Halal. Halal. Yeah. And uh they have the brown sugar chai, dirty chai, Somali chai, um, and they also have coffee, which you know, they have the white mocha latte, iced latte, all of that. So if you are in the Nashville area and you want to visit a um black business, the horn is it. So yeah. Um, yeah. I love them. Yeah, yeah. All right, boo. So what let's go and let's get into twice the fire. What have you been on?
SPEAKER_06Man, so I want to talk about this young lady. I think she is severely underrated. I've been a fan of hers for years, and I finally listened to the album in full, Miss Calela, who Kalella is an artist from the DMV area, but ethnically she is Ethiopian. And she's born in Washington, D.C. and raised in a suburb of Maryland, Maryland. When I say her music is literally, I have her on my list of silence. Her music is sonically unlike anybody else's. If you mix elements from, you know, York, I I don't even I can't compare her. Her music is fucking dope. But her new album, New Avatar, I love Lincoln Bee. I love New Life form with a fouche. I love the bridge featuring Pink Panthers. But when I say she is a young woman who she's she has the Sade effect. And when I say the Sade effect, it's certain artists that has a Sade effect where I get lost in their voices. So for me, that's Enya, that's Sade, that's uh Kalella, that's that's uh Lana Del Rey, that's uh Beyoncé for me. That's Amy Winehouse, like a true songbird, right? I love her. Um I don't even know how it would classify her. Her music is classified, yeah, it's is she's definitely alternative. I love Kalella. Um LaRue, if you knew Bulletproof back in the day, been there, done that, messed around. She's coming out with a new album. I'm so excited, but her two songs, Babylon, Babylon is my favorite. I've been jamming. Babylon and then Cabin Fever, amazing. Um, what else have I been listening to? Oh, Msego, recommended. I love him. So I met him twice in my head. The third time I meet him, that's gonna be my husband. He don't even know it. But shout out to Msego. I love that. The video was definitely an old to Andrew 3000's um Hey I loved it. Um, I'm gonna give a shout out to Flower Child, he's a Neo Soul artist. I love him. My first time I heard him is called Aura Blue, but this is a really good single called Mock to a Flame. And Beyonce finally put me on my misery and she released Dong Morning Dew. But see, if you was a real bitch, you would know that song came along almost 13 years ago, and I had the I had the demos on my phone. I didn't care because Beyonce, you have about a hundred of the songs, because baby, I need um you must have lost your mind. But I'm not gonna complain, Beyonce, because you know, I'm but I'm gonna let you know and I'm gonna tell it to you every time I bring up your name. I'm tired of being the visual. Tired. But morning do, don't how she reworked it and the damn stacking of a setting, mother, wonderful song. Ugh. Love it. And then I want to give a shout out. This, you know, Auntie. Oh, I'm 32. Auntie don't be listening to what's I'm already on, the new music. But that song um by Baby Chief Do it, baby. I just want to dance. I just want to dance. Love that song. If I was in my early 20s, oh, I would have done a TikTok today. I if I would have had TikTok in my early 20s, yeah. Absolutely. I think this song is genius. It's summer, is is fun. He's talking his shit because he's just talking about kind of like the ghetto stereotypes of love in our community, or you know, just sex or whatever. But I love that fucking song. I think it's I think it's a genius song. And my baby uh Alina Marat Barazz, I found out she has new music. June 5th, she released Birdseye View. I love her. Her 2020 album, It Was Divine. That got me through the pandemic, okay? But I love Alina Barazz. Shout out to her.
SPEAKER_03Shout out to her as well.
SPEAKER_05Um so what have you been watching, boo? Like your television, movies, what you got?
SPEAKER_06Well, Love Island is over. I'm trying to think of a series to start.
SPEAKER_03I fucking hate that show. I'm Love Island.
SPEAKER_06What'd you say?
SPEAKER_04I said I fucking hate that show, but go ahead.
SPEAKER_06Anyway. Um, love Love Island. It's over. Um next year, your girl will be launching her YouTube channel to do recaps by me, myself, and I and I'm so excited.
SPEAKER_05Um, oh, wait a minute. Uh-oh, wait a minute, hold on.
SPEAKER_06Is that a is that uh you have to wait a year, but next summer. Yes.
SPEAKER_05You have to wait a year, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06I'm gonna do my branding, do me some pictures, and learn how to edit again.
SPEAKER_05And come on, exclusive. Come on, exclusive.
SPEAKER_06But I'm thinking about, well, I do my yearly rewatch of Lovecraft Country. It's time, so I'm gonna rewatch that.
SPEAKER_05So many hidden gems. So many hidden gems in that in that series. You can watch that show right now, and everything that is going on in that show right now, it's a hidden gem for this time. And that's why them bitches that HBO canceled it. Because we were getting too far into the truth. Go ahead, I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_06No, no, you're like so for real. I'm thinking about, and I know it's the last season, but I'm thinking about starting the bear. I do want to watch that.
SPEAKER_05I think I'm gonna start it when it ends. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_06I'm off work, so I re-watched Welcome to Dairy already. I'll be special and I'll be there with the snow and such a good show. Let me tell you something. Perfect, perfect, perfect, perfect. I cannot wait for the next season, but um, I will say movies that I'm looking forward to watching. I still need to watch Obsession. I think I'm gonna buy that, but I cannot wait to see the Anthony Bourdain Bourdain movie, Tony in Theatres. I loved Anthony Bourdain. May he rest in peace.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06I thought it was always thought it was the sexiest thing and walked earth, but love him down. So I would love to see how his story started. And then I'm an Antonio Barrez fan. Oh love him down too. So I'm excited.
SPEAKER_04You gonna go see the Odyssey?
SPEAKER_06The Michael Jackson movie, the first biopic in history to cross a billion dollars.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_06Shout out to shout out to um Jafar. I was finna say your majesty. That's the other son, child. Shout out to Jafar Jackson.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, yeah. Shout out to him. Um are you gonna go see the Odyssey?
SPEAKER_06I do want to see that because unlike these new kids, I read that book.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_06Read it in high school, I read it in college, and I want to see Lapita in it. So that's the only reason why I want to see it. Yeah. Lapita in um, I can't think of his real name. Is it Corey Hawkins? He played Dr. Dre in the straight out of comedy.
SPEAKER_05Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
SPEAKER_06I want to see him as well. I'm excited to see him in a regal role like this so he can show his range because he's an he's an amazing ass actor, and I want to see him more. So, yeah, I'm definitely gonna see that. Um, and plus, I do like um, you know, there's Matt Damon, John Lugazamo, and Hack.
SPEAKER_05There's a lot of, it's a lot of people in there.
SPEAKER_06Is it Timothy? Is it no Tom Holland? It's Tom Holland. Tom Holland. Yeah, Tom Holland's in it. Yeah, it's a lot of prominent actors and actress, but yes, I'm definitely gonna see it. I'm going to see that. Yeah. That's the history buffing me. Because we used to have some reading assignments, and I was always in either honors or advanced placement English. So I think I read The Odyssey my freshman year. I read Troy and I read The Odyssey. So I'm excited to see how this. Oh yeah, baby. I read, you know, Edgar Al a lot of Edgar Paul, uh, a lot of Edgar Allan Poe, a lot of Charles Dickens, a lot of Shakespeare. I read Moby, the most. Oh no, no, no, no. Yeah, I read Moby, I read Moby Dick. I read Punishment by Fyodor Ladowski, you know, The Great Gatsby. I read a lot of different Wather and Heights, you know, those class literature books, but you know, these kids don't even know how to write cursive. So the art of reading is dead.
SPEAKER_05Well, I have been listening to music-wise on my twice to fire. Uh, I've been listening to I'm going to get into Kill the King by T.I. Did not know it released uh June 26th. But yeah, I'm going to probably listen to the album tonight. Um, I've been hearing some good things about the album. I think this is his last album, uh, because I think he's getting into other entertainment, you know, things. I mean, his sons, I mean, most of all his family, all his uh daughters, and you know, they're doing the music thing. They're, you know what I'm saying? And I think he's just trying to be there to help support them, which, you know, love tip for that. Um, and I think he's just trying to be a family man now. I thought for a second they were gonna bring the family hustle back on uh Vic.
SPEAKER_06Love that show.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, but I don't know how they would do it. It'd probably have to be on a different network because VH1 is really not doing like reality stuff anymore. Or MTV.
SPEAKER_06Just don't waste.
SPEAKER_05But uh moving on, been listening, been listening to some uh Tanasha. Um her new album is coming out September 25th. Uh it's called Pop Star. I love her. I really do. I feel like she should have been, it's just uh, I hate it because when she first came onto the scene, we were like with two on featuring schoolboy Q. We were like, damn, yes, you know. But she can dance, she can sing, and I just feel like all of K-pop owes her. Say that again. Say that again.
SPEAKER_06All of them owe her.
SPEAKER_05There you go. Um, and then I've also been um in my Bryson Taylor bag. So movies I have watched, or I'm going to go watch. Um, I seen Supergirl. Uh I don't know if I said that last.
SPEAKER_06Um heard so many bad reviews. I want I do want to see that this one. I'm gonna go see that this one.
SPEAKER_05I we talked about it a lot on Yeah and Pasta, and I'll say this. I I'll say exactly what I said on Yam Pasta. If you are going to be in charge of the DCU, if you're gonna be in charge of, you know, directing these films, James Gunn, then I need you to direct like the first five films. I think you directing Superman and then letting someone else direct, uh direct Supergirl was a mistake. The movie felt like Guardians of the Galaxy at first, and then it felt like it was just the plot was okay, but the way that they handled telling the story was just fucking awful. And that's why I gave it a six out of ten. I went into this movie wanting to see Supergirl, wanting to see her be a badass. She is nothing like her cousin. You said what, babe?
SPEAKER_06A lot of one thing I've been reading, like the reviews and the critics, they didn't care for the actress either.
SPEAKER_05Well, she's weird. They say she like she said this is what they're saying. I've never met the girl in my life, but they said she be on the red carpet, like making crazy ass sounds and stuff. I I don't know. Here's the thing. You're getting my nerves. I don't know. Like, everyone keeps saying that she's weird and she like the way she does interviews, it's just, it's just not, she's not all the way there or something like that. Well, we need to figure that out. If she's gonna be a part of this universe, we need to figure what's going on. You know what I'm saying? But no, I really I don't blame the actress. I blame the plot. I blame the director. I blame James Gunn for not directing the first fucking five movies of something that you were supposed to be the head of. But yeah, anywho, um, I'm excited for Spider-Man, of course. Um, excited for Spider-Man. I have to watch the last episode of X-Men 97. Um, I heard that it was like the people gave it a 7 out of 10 for this latest episode. Listen, I don't give a damn. I'm finna tune in. I'm finna take my edible, and I'm about to tune in tonight. Because I gotta be at work at 8 o'clock. But I'm finna tune in, baby. Um, and then also, reality-wise, I'm watching um next gen uh NYC uh on Bravo. Um, and let me tell you something. I'm gonna be real quick about this. That damn Riley Burris, that might be Candy's daughter, but that's Mama Joyce. That is fucking mom. That is Mama Joyce. This last episode, she got she got a little tipsy, and this one girl that she cannot stand, she kept telling her, shut up, shut up, shut up. And like the girl, the girl was like, What do you mean? You talking about when I tell you she took, I don't know what the fuck she had in her hand, and she act like she was gonna launch it. I said, Oh bitch, I said, Oh, bitch, that is mama Joyce.
SPEAKER_06Oh, she needed to take that wig off. She had to put off with that big ass wig off.
SPEAKER_05I said, that is mama Joyce. I know Candy had you, baby, but that is Mama Joyce. And she, they was like, they was like, Riley, calm down. She said, she better not say anything else to me.
SPEAKER_06I said, oh, I said, Riley.
SPEAKER_05I was like, all right, baby, we love you, but baby, you gotta slow down on your drinking because, baby, you get real.
SPEAKER_04Ooh, it was if you could have seen it, them girls were ducking after she acted like she was gonna throw that shit.
SPEAKER_05Oh my God. I'll send you the clip. But it was like, and I know, you know, y'all, they being young, being on a reality television show, it's a lot. It's a lot, you know. Your mama's super famous. Your mama, you know, she's doing everything. And it's like you, it's like kind of like you've been being put, like, well, damn, how do I really act? You know what I'm saying? And you're still trying to figure things out. So I get it. But yeah, if you're if you're looking for some good reality television, watch uh Next Gen NYC on Bravo. Um, I'm only watching for really Riley and um Ava. She's Damon Dash's daughter. Um, and whew, my God. She talks about the bankruptcy and everything. Like it No. She said, actually, my dad wasn't paying rent. I said, Oh.
SPEAKER_06Oh, but you rapped about Jay-Z Brest smell like cinnamon doo-doo.
SPEAKER_05I didn't oh. Well, um. But you don't want to. Speaking of that, make sure y'all take a little bit of cinnamon every now and then. It helps your, you know, your insulin, diabetes, all of that, you know. All right, niggas. Um, Ashley, you got anything else to say, boo?
SPEAKER_06For this not to be a long show. We sure was talking.
SPEAKER_05Oh, Lord. I know. I don't know why I even said that at the fucking beginning.
SPEAKER_06I don't know why you said that.
SPEAKER_05And I'm sitting here looking at other platforms to stream on because, baby, this, this, this Riverside shit, like this, honestly. It's really done piss me off because I feel like you done stopped, I done stopped a couple of times. I don't know what the fuck Riverside got going on, but I need y'all to fix it.
SPEAKER_07Fix my phone! Fix my phone.
SPEAKER_05Oh, God. Oh man. Well, I'll say this before we go on a serious note. Black people, take care of yourself. Um, and understand that we do not live in a post-racist society, a post-racial society, a post-racist society, a post-racial society. Either way you want to say it. We do not live in a society like that. And please tell your children, please talk to your children. That whole situation just I'm still thinking about that. I it just pisses me off, Ashley. It just pisses me the fuck off. I don't see color. Bitch, what? You don't, you don't see, like when white people say that, I don't see color. Bitch, I'm right here. You don't see my black ass.
SPEAKER_06Oh, easy to miss that.
SPEAKER_05When motherfuckers say that, I'm like, oh, okay. All right, go on somewhere, bye. But no. Uh shout out to everybody, shout out to the Federal Union Network, shout out to Yan Posta, shout out to Sisters in Sync, and shout out to us. And thank you guys for continuing to listen to us and our crazy ass lives and what the fuck we're going through every week. And with that being said, my name, oh, my our email address or email address is theblackparadigm77 at gmail.com. For the niggas in the front, in the middle, and in the back, our email address is the blackparadigm77 at gmail.com. And with that being said, my name is TJ, aka TJ with the sauce.
SPEAKER_06And my name is Ashley, aka Ashley Great.
SPEAKER_05And niggas, we are out. We will see you in two weeks. Well, actually, hold on, no, next week. Next week, right? You ain't got nothing going on. Yeah, we'll see y'all as we'll see y'all niggas next week. I'm like, not in two weeks. I'm thinking we impossible. Hell no. We'll see y'all niggas next week. Bye.
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